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Infertility is a very hard thing to go through. It is very expensive, very physically tiring with a great amount of tests and examinations to be attended to, and also very emotionally draining. There are times when you will start to feel alone. This can lead to depression and that can lead to further problems with fertility. If you need help, one way to get support for your infertility problems is through the infertility stories of others.

Finding stories for infertility is not hard. The internet is a great source for these stories and any search engine will yield an incredible amount of results concerning fertility stories. You can also try visiting sites like FertitliyTies or SharedJourney. These sites offer not only stories but also big communities of infertility sufferers like you that you can communicate with and discuss problems with. You can also submit your own story. This not only helps out others, the process of writing out your own story can be very therapeutic for you as well.

Every story you will find is unique. Some are stories of great trials and sacrifice like the story of women who have to struggle with their infertility, enduring disappointment and sacrifices for years. Some stories describe how infertility can sometimes be difficult to anticipate or prepare for. Sometimes only minimal complications are found in evaluations and treatments are expected to work quickly. But in reality it would still take many years before a successful pregnancy. But still, some of these stories of hardship and trial ends with a birth of a child. In the fight against infertility, keeping the hope alive is one of the most difficult things to do and these stories can be very helpful to keep you believing that, through all the struggles, dreams can still come true.

Some stories are more open ended. One story shares the experiences of a young mother struggling with her third child. She had her first child naturally but progressively found it harder to have children. Her second child was a success story for artificial insemination but her third was still underway. In her story, she describes the experience of secondary infertility openly and ends with a positive note even though her last attempt has not proven successful yet.

Other stories are from famous people. Infertility doesn’t choose who it affects. Everyone has the same chance of having fertility problems. A great story comes from a former “Friend”. In the popular TV series Friends, the characters of Monica and Chandler went through their own problems with infertility. In real life, the actress who played Monica, Courtney Cox-Arquette, also had to go through infertility. She and her husband, David Arquette, had no problems getting pregnant. However, Courtney found that she had difficulty keeping the baby alive as the couple was met with miscarriage after miscarriage. It was a hard experience for them and, as they neared 40, hope seemed to fade. But they kept at it and in 2004 Courtney gave birth to Coco, a healthy baby girl.

Of course stories are helpful but they do have limitations. If you have more questions or need support that on-line forums can’t provide, you can try going to a support group. Studies have shown that even support groups have great effects on people’s fertility as they help relieve some of the stress that can compound the problem. If you’re interested, try going to the Resolve website. Resolve itself organizes support groups called Resolve Groups. Chapters are spread all over the country and can be contacted through the website.

Many people suffer from infertility so you don’t have to go through every rough patch on your own. Getting the help you need is essential for you and your future family.

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